Allowing yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who has not mistreated you, is a mistake you should never make in life.
"We must avoid jumping to conclusions based on what others are saying about someone else."
What individuals say about others reveals a great deal concerning them. I'll say it again: what you say about other people speaks a lot about you! What an individual chooses to notice, others can reveal a lot concerning them.
Death of a character is a widespread and damaging phenomena that may be found anywhere.
It may be found in families, political arenas, places of worship, organizations, workplaces, and so forth.
Death of a
character is the purposeful, malevolent, unreasonable, and continuous endeavor
to harm a person's reputation.
Death of a character is the slandering of a person with the goal of undermining public trust in that person.
Death of a character is the act of lowering one's own character in order to damage the character of others.
Some people take great pleasure in destroying the reputations of others. These folks have what I'll refer to as "Destructive Tendencies." They feed their ego by bringing down others. PhD (drag him down).
False
accusations are the most common type of mental abuse. People will try to
assassinate your character if they can't eliminate your aspirations and
purpose. Some people's demons will constantly be irritated by your spirit! When
they see that disliking you isn't working, they begin to tell and spread lies
about you.
As the saying goes, "a friend of my enemy is my enemy." Bringing previous prejudice and feelings into current interactions is one of the factors that prevents us from living a full and inclusive life. A buddy of your adversary is not always your adversary; it all relies on intentions and contributions. God may use the buddy of your adversary to bless you!'
There are seven important 'DON'Ts' that you must avoid at all costs.
To refuse to kill your character the follows are:
1. Don't form opinions about someone based on what others say about them: Never form inferences about someone based on what others say about them. People draw because they lack social intelligence.
2. Don't take on the enemies of others: It shows a complete lack of wisdom and awareness to take on the adversaries of your friends. Make no enemies simply because they are not on good terms with your pals.
3. Do not use your children as war weapons: God can use your adversaries to benefit your children. Stop using them to fight those you disagree with. Your children will have to determine who their opponents are on their own; never use your parental influence to make your children dislike others. You may need to guard them with their choice of companions on a regular basis, but never sow conflict in your children's hearts against someone else.
4. Don't join the majority in hating someone: Don't join the majority in hating someone if you discover that the individual has no offence. "If you don't see it with your own eyes or hear it with your own ears," someone remarked. Don't create it with your little intellect and then spread it with your huge voice." Never join the masses in their hatred of others.
5. Don't be used as a weapon in other people's battles: You don't have to become involved in every war. Refuse to be used as weapons in the battles of others. Refuse to take sides when individuals fight foul. Consider your options carefully before making a final decision.
6. Don't dislike people simply because they don't act like you: It's a waste of knowledge if you just like individuals who act like you. The best indicator of our education is how we respond to those who hold opposing views. People who believe their ideas are superior to others are more likely to overestimate their relevant knowledge and disregard opportunities to learn more.
People that do not think like you are your biggest source of illumination. People that are unlike us are usually the ones who help us grow the most. Companies that have achieved maximum growth are those that value diversity and inclusion.
7. Don't pass judgment on someone until you've heard the complete story: As someone once remarked, "Beware of half-truths." You may have obtained the incorrect half." Don't pass judgment on other people's decisions unless you understand why they made them.
Don't be readily influenced if someone says something negative about you or judges you as if they knew you. Remember that dogs will bark if they do not recognize the human. People who are afraid of you speak about you in the hope that others would not find you as appealing.
Avoid persons who constantly complain about others; these people have a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The actual issue is that they are upset with themselves rather than with others.
Stop people's bad habits. "Don't talk about me until you've talked to me," someone once stated. Stop spreading rumors and misleading information about people.
Haters propagate rumors, fools believe them, and idiots believe them! Stop erecting barriers of conflict and instead assist in the construction of bridges of understanding between individuals.
ENVY and JEALOUSY should be avoided. Everyone has a unique destiny.
The words you speak reveal the true you to others. I arrive in tranquility
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